How to find a good looking man to date?

How to find a good looking man to date? Finding a man to date is easy. Especially on a dating site, where the exposure to single men is tremendous. However, I hear this all the time from women all over the country, “I am an attractive, successful female who has my life together, but I am not attracted to anyone. Men approach me all the time, but I can’t seem to find someone I like. What should I do?” Since you are still looking, I presume you have not heard about the book How To Find The Man of Your Dreams that talks about many aspects of finding not only good looking, but the best man you can get for you. By the way did you know which dating site has the most density of good looking people, richest people and celebrities? I just convinced my friend with a nine-figure annual income to join this site. Not to mention, I personally have met a number of celebrities and multi-millionaires on this site. Click Here and check it out.

Finding a good looking man is already the part of dating that seems to be the toughest. After all, when we set up our profiles on a dating site, we already have a certain type of person in mind that we would like to date. It gets harder and harder with age as the number of available singles shrinks, as people are settling down and getting married. So if you are in your prime like I am, finding a good looking man to date is hard enough. I get this all the time from men, “Why are you still single? You can have any man you want.” Right, I can. But do I want ANY man?
Of course, not!

I am an attractive single woman in my prime who is highly educated, multi-lingual, well-traveled, and all the wonderful things we all consider ourselves to be. So, why would I want to date ANY man? It is only reasonable that I require someone like me but in a man’s body. Ok, he really does not have to speak more than one language as long as that language is English. But I do like someone who has a Graduate Degree like me and whom I can talk to about international travels and actually share experiences, as well as talking about other topics that interest both of us. Is it not reasonable? And when people ask me why I like men who are taller than 5’9; that is because I am 5’9. Is it not reasonable?

So, we all think about ourselves. We are catches, and we want to date someone who is like us.
But if you are such a catch that everyone wants to date you, how do you find another catch? Don’t we all want the best we can get? We all want to date our equals, if not better. In fact we prefer to date someone better in some way.

Once we have found a great man to date, the rest is easy, in particular making him commit. But while making a man commit is not a particular struggle, we struggle looking and not finding that man.

I am not sure if everyone of us has that type. I think I do. Looking at my past relationships I find that all men I have been with are alike. They all look like my dad actually which kinda creeps me out. It creeps me out even more when my mom is not happy with my choices of men. That leaves me an answer that I am attracted to a certain type. It usually strikes me when I see someone who is my type. It really kinda hits me on the head like a lightning.

Anyhow, from what I am noticing, most of us like a fit, athletic type body, while some of us like curvy, voluptuous or skinny types. I certainly do not find beer bellies the least attractive, but the hardest part is finding a man who has the kind of facial features I like.

So, how do you find that attractive person to date on a dating site when you already have a laundry list of must-haves? This is what How To Find The Man of Your Dreams talks about in great detail.

First, if you have already met everyone you seemed to be interested in on a dating site in the course of your first round of first dates, and still have not found “your type”, here are a few great tips that will open up new opportunities.

First, change your search criteria. I am sure you have a set of non-negotiable criteria. It could be distance. It could be relationship status. It could be number of children. You know best what your non-negotiable criteria are. For instance, you are in a situation where you know for sure that you are not going to relocate. If you are sharing custody of your children with their dad, moving away may create huge problems. So, you are not considering moving. Then one of your non-negotiable criteria is that a man you want to date should live in your area. Great! But what if you are for instance single, childless, and are freelance artist? You can work anywhere in the world. You may want to consider meeting men who do not live in your vicinity.

The same goes for height. Say, you are 5’6. You are attracted to men who are 6 feet tall. That’s great. But when you think about it, perhaps men who otherwise meet your criteria are shorter than 6 feet tall. But setting up your search criteria to meet your height standard you are limiting your opportunities to meet a great man who is otherwise a fantastic match for you.

I don’t have that many search criteria, but let me tell you. When I met my second husband, I was looking for men with a Graduate Degree, just like myself. He did not have the Graduate Degree I wanted, but when he contacted me and I saw that everything else was in line with what I was looking for I agreed to meet him. It was the right choice.

Another man I ended up dating was one inch short of my search criteria, but was otherwise a great match and was still taller than me.

Age wise, I like to date men five to fifteen years older than me. Don’t ask me why, it is just my preference. But after meeting everyone in that age range who seemed interesting and otherwise met my desires, and lived in my vicinity, I started meeting men around my age, and then even younger men. Granted, what I found out was that younger men I met were just as mature as older men, with great education I needed. Looking younger than my age really helped too, since you really can’t tell the difference when I am out with those men, while the older men I used to date were always getting confused with my dad.

So, if you are having trouble finding an attractive or a great looking man to date, broaden your search criteria. Be open-minded about it. And check out How To Find The Man of Your Dreams

Another thing is that you need to start going out with men who do not look that great on their dating pictures. I can’t list all the instances where I liked a man on paper and did not find him the least attractive in person, and vice versa. Some people are exceptionally photogenic while some people look terrible on the pictures. Another thing to remember is that camera visually adds weight. I have met many men who looked very buffed on their pictures, but were rather small frame in person.

If you are looking for that buffed muscular type, keep that in mind. Men who look very muscular on their dating site pictures are not always buffed in person. Keep your opportunities open. You may be very surprised when you meet your frog prince.