If you want to impress women on a first date, you have to be aware of how you present yourself. Your presentation on a date will comprise of three main components:
Wardrobe is a crucial critical component of your presentation. Whether you like it or not, the way you dress says a lot about you. Your wardrobe says whether you care about how you look, and whether you care about how you come off. It says a lot about how much respect you have for someone you are on a date with, how much respect you have for yourself and the other people surrounding you. You don't have to dress like a male equivalent of Kerry Bradshaw of “Sex and the City” to look good, but here are some tips to help you put together the best possible wardrobe for a date with a woman.
1. Have your female friends to help you with choice of clothing.
If you don't know what to wear on a date that will make the most positive impression on a woman, get another woman’s opinion. Show your female friend what you have in your closet and if your wardrobe is too outdated in her opinion, ask her to go shopping with you.
Take a trip to a popular singles bar or a dance club and pay attention to what other men are wearing, especially the ones who seem to have the most success with women.
If you have been doing construction work your whole life and never wore a suit, you probably will not feel comfortable wearing one just to go on a date. The most important is that your clothes look clean and neat. However, try to avoid such wardrobe items as Hawaiian shirts with large print, flip flops, sandals and hats unless you are going to a tiki bar on a beach. Generally, go with what is appropriate to wear at the venue of your first date.
Here are some suggested topics to talk about on a first date with a woman:
Let the woman you are meeting know that you have a clear direction in your life, know what your goals and dreams are and how to achieve them. Women are very attracted to strong powerful men who know what they want in life and are successful at getting it.
Humor is always a great way to break the ice. Think about some funny stories from your life, or just a funny story you have read somewhere or someone told you.
Ask the woman you’ve just met for a date about her. Ask open-ended questions that will make her want to take the lead and steer the conversation into the area that she likes to talk about. Try to avoid specific questions that may leave her in an uncomfortable situation or have her answer a question she would rather not answer.
If you are running out of ideas as to what you should be talking about, try this technique. One of the greatest seduction gurus of all time, David DeAngelo explains this technique in depth in his well-known book DoubleYourDating