I see controversial advice on the subject of complimenting a woman on a date. I personally think that complimenting is a must. Now, it is not necessary to go on and on about how great she is, especially if this is not what you really think, for instance, if you have a set of compliments that you are trained to throw at each woman you date, this is not a good idea. It’s like using the same old pick up lines. They don’t work for every single woman. For example, if you tell each woman you date that she has beautiful hair, and one woman in particular thinks that her hair is desperately due to fresh highlights, your compliment will not be taken in a way it’s intended.
Here are some great ways to compliment a woman without sounding insincere.
If the woman gives you an impression that she is very independent, and has her own life, tell her that. A good way of saying it would be “you are so independent. I like it.”
Another great way to compliment a woman and to score some points is to listen to her, hear her stories and to make positive comments. For instance, I meet and date a lot of lawyers. I am particularly interested in the law. I read books at the local law library, research case summary online, etc. So, when I talk to my lawyer-dates, they always compliment me on how incredible astute I am in the area of the law.
Hearing compliments of the way she dresses, is a very ear-pleasing sound for a woman. Try saying what you like about her style instead of just saying “I like your dress.” This kind of a comment is more accepted in a woman-to-woman banter. As a man, you want to express why you like her outfit. For instance, you can say “you look very elegant”, “this color really brings out your eyes”, “I love your style”, etc. This way you are telling her that you actually like her, and not her dress, that may not even look to great on her.
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