For an attractive single woman who is dating men on a dating site, it is sometimes difficult to keep track of the men that are writing to her. Not to mention, there are many Michaels, Dons, and Phils, writing to each single woman from all over the country. How do you keep track of men and how do you know which one is calling you? If you don’t want to fall into the trap of not knowing who it is exactly that’s calling you at any given point, chances are, you will get confused and completely lose track of your online contacts.
If you give your telephone number to your online dating pals, they do expect you to some degree to know who they are when they call you. If you don’t know who the man is, it is a very bad reflection on you. Chances are, the man will feel discouraged, or think that you are a serial dater looking for a free meal ticket. In any event, the man will not feel special, and you don’t want to send this kind of negative signs.
Ok, here is an extremely innovative way of instantly recognizing the person who is calling you from a dating site, or if he leaves you a message, knowing who it is that’s calling you so you can call him back knowing exactly who it is.
If a man has given you his telephone number, and you have given him yours, put his numbers in your phone book. Make sure to identify the man such as “Name, Dating Site (if you are using more then one), Location), i.e. “Elaine, match, walnut creek”. The second step is to take a camera phone picture of the dating site screen that features that person. Try to include the username in the photo, just like this one.
Now, you are all set. Trust me on this, when a man calls you and tells you “Hi, I am Michael from match”, and you respond, “I know exactly who you are”, he will be ecstatic. And of course, if he leaves you a message, call him back preferably the same day.