tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8281467559943495498.post222592206394862598..comments2022-08-04T19:43:17.515-07:00Comments on Internet Dating Tips: Dating Tips for Plus-Size WomenUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8281467559943495498.post-90985547750319595632008-07-06T20:18:00.000-07:002008-07-06T20:18:00.000-07:00This article was very anti-plus size woman, which ...This article was very anti-plus size woman, which is odd since it is for plus size women - it came off as snooty and mean rather than helpful. I don't agree with the skirt comment at all - if I feel sexy in a short skirt then I will radiate confidence that will attract men - If the writer doesn't like to look at plus size women in skirts - she should turn her head. Plus, not all skinny women look great in skirts either - very few women have perfect legs. I believe if I feel sexy then I am sexy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8281467559943495498.post-18003684241367250222008-02-20T08:23:00.000-08:002008-02-20T08:23:00.000-08:00I agree with this post in the sense that women, ev...I agree with this post in the sense that women, even plus-size women, should use their assets to their advantage. However, it seems that the suggestions are based on stereotypes and are not unique to larger women, and quite frankly I question the OP's qualifications to make such suggestions. I'll go through your tips...<BR/><BR/>1. Not all plus-size women love to cook, just like not all slim women are gym bunnies. This is rooted in the stereotype that big people love to eat, and that is unfortunate, considering that you are given this group advice. Speaking as one larger-sized woman, I am a professional woman who is not the homemaker type who loves to cook (or eat). If I advertised that I love to cook, then men would feel sorely mislead.<BR/>2.I agree.<BR/>3.This works offline, but truthfully, it's hard to flirt online, and if a man doesn't see you as his "favorite" body type, he won't even give you a chance to show you either. It's better to seek out those who do appreciate larger body types in the first place (there are plenty out there).<BR/>4.This is kind of a sticky one, and it's a little more complicated than just dress "your size." I don't think anyone, regardless of size, should dress in clothes that do not flatter them. However, not all plus-size clothes flatter plus-size people - how many large women walk around in moo-moos and sweats? How is that flattering, either? The key is not to dress in plus-size clothes, the key is to find clothes that highlight your best features and show off your alluring self, period.<BR/>5.Agree 100 percent.<BR/>6.NO woman should ever ask a man this. In my experience, most women who ask this are quite thin, not fat. If you are truly a fat woman, chances are you already know and will not ask this question.<BR/>7.Yes, this is the perception. But the fact is that men use women for sex all the time, and not just large women. This is a great tip for any women, not only plus-size women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com